You need to come to terms with the fact that you have all been saying that for years now lol. I'm gonna need proof that I sent him a single red penny. He doesn't want to come to Canada. Aren't y'all tired of being so hopeful for someone's downfall that never comes? And since when does it matter or is it your business how married couples spend money? I don't understand what he should "offer me" other than unconditional love, caring, property, a home, a car...I mean what would anyone here have better to offer? Lol like I don't care about material things. And I love when these morons diagnose me. Now I have dementia lmao. Please get a hobby.